My Husband Wants His Mother to Move In With Us

Evaluate what your husband and you can provide in terms of elderly care:

• Get familiar with your MIL’s situation. Speak to your MIL’s GP to get a better sense of the level of care required, while being aware that it will increase in time.
• Think ahead. Figure out if this endeavor can fit into both of your schedules without any issues. If you doubt it, it’d be a good idea to bring in outside help.
• Make a decision. In the earlier stages, your mother-in-law could be more independent, but as time passes, she might need assistance with everyday activities like walking, bathing, and dressing. Talk to your husband and get to know if he’s up for the challenge for the long haul. Otherwise, consider other options — whether it’s live-in care or an assisted living facility.

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